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Sunday, November 28th, 2010
7:00 pm - SUNY New Paltz Fake Orgasm Survey

I am inviting you to participate in a survey that I am conducting on faking orgasm. I am a student at SUNY New Paltz. The survey is for a research project on faking orgasm. It has been approved by the Institutional Review Board. In the survey you will be asked a few questions on your own experiences and feelings on orgasm and faking orgasm as well as some general questions on the topic. It is not necessary to have faked, not faked, or even to have had any type of sexual interaction before. This survey is aimed to get the opinions of everyone. It is open to the public only requiring that those who take it are 18 years of age or older and live in the U.S. Participation is voluntary and all responses are anonymous. It will take approximately 20-30 minutes to complete. If you feel uncomfortable, you may stop at any time. All responses will be very appreciated. Thank you
for your time!

If you have any questions, comments, or concerns please contact me at: NPorgasmresearch@gmail.com

Below is a link to the survey:
Click here to take survey

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Wednesday, November 17th, 2010
10:50 pm - me

HEY!! thought you will like to know that Candi_Cruz its now live on dirtystage watch it now.. don miss it!
Monday, August 14th, 2006
9:22 pm - Well, this is more than a little troubling:

"A woman's sex drive begins to plummet once she is in a secure relationship, according to research."

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Thursday, January 19th, 2006
11:41 am - Music

I am looking for music to meditate to as well for ecstatic dance....
I enjoy World music, African, Eastern, Tibetan bowls, chants etc....etc...Tribal beats and vocals....not any of that New agey tinky crap...some real heart and soul powererful moving sound....
I love 'Return to the Source' ambient beats for doing yoga to and meditating....
Bu I am looking for more, and a variety of good positive music, acoustic as well as electronic....
Can anyone make some suggestions of labels, or artists to explore?

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Friday, January 13th, 2006
12:44 am - Spirit journey

Spiritual journey
Hi I am new here and I am on a spiritual journey, and I want Tantra as a part of it...
My partner walked out on me on New Years Day, I had been in despair, but yesterday my heart opened, there have been still more tears....but I am just breathing through...and focussing on keeping my heart open...but it had to happen for this to happen...now I am open...and i realize my mistakes...in my physical life i would like to make connection with someone I can have a relationship with before i forget...the mistakes i have made in my selfishness....a committed Tantric relationship...Love.
I am looking for online Friends as well as present physical life friends...in my relationship I forgot to have friends....
I want to chat to positive people...who are on a spiritual journey...and how to deal with sexual energy when one is single....

current mood: calm

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Friday, January 7th, 2005
6:19 am - The Role of Passion in Hot Monogamy

A New Definition of Passion ...

Passion is a blend of sexual arousal and emotional intimacy. When you feel emotionally connected with your partner during lovemaking, you are no longer two separate beings moving independently toward orgasm; you are partners on a fantastic voyage. Your partner’s arousal fuels your arousal as you take turns lifting each other higher and higher into ecstasy. There is a freshness to your lovemaking, a suspension of time, a total absorption in the present. At peak moments you feel at one with your partner and the words “I love you” may flow spontaneously from your lips.

I have a formula to describe this spiritual epiphany: “S2-I” – two Sexually expressive people joined by Intimacy. To form this interpersonal molecule both partners need to experience intense levels of arousal. What “binds” them together is intimacy. They don’t merely want to experience pleasure; they want to pleasure each other. They don’t merely want to have sex; they want to make love.

Some couples have the incomplete formula “S2”. In this variation, both partners are sexually charged, but they are rarely intimate with each other. They experience “hot sex”, but not "passionate sex". There is a profound difference between the two. Two people who are highly aroused can have intense, toe-curling sex, but in order to experience Passion, they have to be emotionally close to each other as well.

This is not to say that hot sex is bad sex. Many couples from time to time have hot lovemaking sessions, totally devoid of intimacy, which keep them grinning for days. But if lust is all they experience, they are missing the soul connection.

Above are excerpts from the book “Hot Monogamy” by Patricia Love M.D.

The Focus of this Community is:
The exploration of deep, intimate, sexual loving by partners who aspire to use their lovemaking not only as a source of pleasure, bonding and looking deeper into the heart of each other, but also as a tool for spiritual expansion to encompass the whole of the world and all of life.

Please read the Community Guidelines ... !


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